“We live in an age where we feel guilt whenever we have to cut someone off but the reality is that some relationships do need to die, some people do need to be unfollowed and defriended. We aren’t meant to be this tethered to the people in our past. The Internet mandates that we don’t burn bridges and keep everyone around like relics but those expectations are unrealistic and unhealthy. Simply put, we don’t need to know what everyone else is up to. We’re allowed to be choosy about who we surround ourselves with online and in real life, even if it might hurt people’s feelings.”—Ryan O’Connell, You Don’t Have To Be Friends With Everybody (via larmoyante)
i feel really sad, like i want someone to spend time with me but i also don’t want to be around people and i feel bad because my bf is hanging out with our friend who just a had a baby and i havent even met the kid yet but i just feel so antisocial i want to sit on my computer, read, or sleep.